We Are Adults

I have been dating a gorgeous guy that is 10 years younger than I am. After being married to a guy my own age and having the most boring sex, I have decided to have some fun. My ex was very dull when it came to making love, 8 years of him and I had forgotten what it was like to want to make love, to want to feel and try new things.

This gorgeous guy is only 21 and he is definitely in his prime. He has a ton of stamina and knows how important caressing and being gentle is. No woman likes to be thrown on the bed and be jumped on. There needs to be a lot more foreplay involved. A soft whisper in your ear while he is caressing you, a soft touch. And afterwards a woman loves to be held and cuddled.

My ex husband knew nothing about caressing and kissing softly , he was like a cave man and he was finished in 10 minutes or less. Once in a while he would whisper things, but they were not things that excited me in the least. How is it that some men have no idea what their partners needs are? He never even worried about pleasing me, it was all him and nothing else mattered.

Now with my new guy, I am finally getting the attention I was missing for so long. He is not just a gorgeous hunk of a guy but he knows how to treat a woman. He makes me feel wanted and I find that I respond to him with the same eager need. I now see how much I was missing for those long 8 years I had been married.

I don't expect to marry my boyfriend, I am not such a fool as to make that mistake. But I do know now that the next time I marry it will be with a different kind of man. I am going to find someone who can take care of my needs and someone who will whisper how much he loves me. I will never again settle for a man that only cares about himself.