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I am a married woman in an open relationship, soI have a husband and I also have a boyfriend. My husband and I both enjoy the freedom of being able to date outside the marriage. We don't talk about our other relationship, he will never meet my boyfriend and I will never meet his girlfriend either. Itis understood that we will keep these relationships private and that our life together can continue in peace and contentment without interruption.

I met my boyfriend on an online dating site, we met and instantly hit it off. He knows I am married and does not ask anything about it, we agreed when we began dating that he would have to accept the relationship for what it is. There will never be more, we date we go out and we have fun. At the end of the night I go my way and he goes his. We will never spend the complete night together.

Before leaving him at night I do go to his apartment and we spend a couple of hours caressing and making love. His touch on my skin is very soft and caressing.I think he is beginning to hate it when I leave though, and this worries me. I truly like him and am enjoying our time together and I would hate for it to have to end. If he begins to feel jealousy I will have to move on and find another partner thatwill bewilling to accept my limitations.

The truth is that I love my husband and I do not want to lose my marriage. We have been married over 12 years and I am very happy with him. I could not face the world every day if I was unable to start the day with his caressing touch and his wonderful smell. We were made for each other, that is another reason why the open relationship works so well for us. We are the same and we both know we need this in order to be complete. It doesn't mean that we are not close or that we don't love each other.