We Are Adults

One night I went to a swingers club called Romance there at the bar stood a tall dark handsome guy, I walked gingerly over to the bar, I say gingerly as if you ask my friends they will tell you that I am Sweet and innocent, sweet is maybe but innocent they have me pegged totally wrong.

I don't publish the fact that I am a swinger its something I like to keep to myself only because most of my friends believe in true romance, meeting a handsome guy falling in love, getting married and having kids all by the age of 30, but that's not my kind of thing.

Of course we all like ab it of romance and a Handsome guy is definitely on the cards but, why rush the rest, why not live a little and have some fun, there is plenty of time to get married and have kids, I just prefer to live a little first, once you start having kids your life will never be your own again and you couldn't do what you really wanted to do for yourself until they are at least 18, some call me sweet and innocent, some have called me selfish for wanting this but everybody has the right to choose their own destiny and if later on in life I decide that the path I took was a mistake then I only have myself to blame, at least I won't blame someone else for pushing me into something.

So anyway where was I oh that's right on my way over to the bar where this gorgeous guy stood, I ordered a drink and took a sly glance to my left and flashed a quick smile at him, he said "hi", "hi" I replied back this was not the time for old cliche's like do you come here often, he turned round and said to the barman "I'll get that" referring to my drink, "thanks" I said and that broke the ice for what proved to be one of the most memorable nights of my life as this was the night when everything I had held instore for my future went out the window and I started on the path that so many of my friends had taken.